Like Mother, Like Daughter?
Guest Post by Carlene Havel : When I was a young woman, people often mistook Mom and me for sisters, something she always found more amusing than I did. Now, strangers often assume we are twins. At the memorial service for a distant relative, people kept saying how good I looked. Then--that moment when someone called me by my mother’s name--I realized everyone thought I was her. I suppose I DID look pretty good for a woman my mother’s age. No wonder I laughed when I first heard someone say, “I’m becoming my mother.” Both my mom and I are authors. However, we have very different approaches to our writing. Mom’s a planner. She works out the plot and outlines her stories extensively before she ever puts pen to paper. I am a “pantser”. I begin a book with one idea, a character, or sometimes an appealing scene and take off from there. For years we talked about collaborating on a book. Both of us had worked with a co-author from time to time, but we had serious concerns about our differe...